Today’s message from @scotttreadway was powerful for us. We talked about it afterwords, how we really need to think through some of the points – just let it sink in. Blogging is one way for me to do that, so here’s my (somewhat scattered) notes:
Children are a Sacred Gift from God
- They are of unspeakable value (the Earthly ministry of Christ: he loved children, Psalm 139)
13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
- They are given without cost to us (although children cost money, we payed nothing for them)
- Their lives will have eternal consequences (not sure if I got this one right on the notes – point being the way they are raised will impact them them forever)
- They will radically shape our lives (and we theirs)
- They require a tremendous amount of effort (parenting is a job)
- They come with a ton of help (God’s Word, his community – the church)
- We have to give them back (they don’t belong to us)
Don’t Break the Gift
- Divorce breaks children
- Abuse breaks children
- Harsh words break children
- Ignoring them breaks children
- Pray for your children
Idea for a prayer for your children (pray for them by name)
Lord, these children belong to you…
You love them more thank I do…
You know them more intimately than I do…
You gave them more than I can ever give them…
You’ve ordained me to pastor these children…
I need your help…
- Spend time with them (lot’s of time)
- Set a good example
- Teach them (Prov. 22:6)
6 Train a child in the way he should go,
and when he is old he will not turn from it.
Pour your life into pastoring your children…
We are pastors, we are shepherds, they are our flock…
So, that was the message this Mother’s Day morning @ranchocommunity. Pretty heavy stuff. I know personally, I struggle with being a good parent. Ugh, I can’t even say it right – I, we want to be pastors to our kids, their shepherds. We want to raise them to know how valuable they are, so they make wise choices with their lives. We want to teach them about the love and grace of our loving father, who daily gives us mercy.
We know we’ve got a lot to learn, at the very least we are getting some good tools to use. I’ll close this post with this verse that we want to use to direct our family:
8 He has showed you, O man, what is good.
And what does the LORD require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy
and to walk humbly with your God.