Found this gem from Mark Roberts Blog. And I quote:
Years ago someone admitted to me, Ã¢â‚¬Å“Evangelism is such a pain. It just makes me feel guilty. I wish I didnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t have to think about it.Ã¢â‚¬Â As I reflected upon his confession, I framed a simple model for getting started in sharing Christ. I called it the Ã¢â‚¬Å“P.A.I.N.S. of Evangelism.Ã¢â‚¬Â If evangelism is such a pain, then letÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s go with that idea! You can begin to share your faith with others by doing the following:
Prayer. Since evangelism is primarily GodÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s work, begin by praying. Confess your hesitations and fears to God. Ask him to give you courage. Ask for a wide open door to share your faith with someone. Pray for those in your life who donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t know the Lord. If you pray faithfully, God will use you. (We could almost stop here, but a Ã¢â‚¬Å“PÃ¢â‚¬Â model for faith-sharing wouldnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t be too compelling!)
Availability. If you are available, God will use you. As you pray, tell the Lord that you are open to be used to share the good news. Then, as you go about your normal business, remain available. God will sometimes give you a chance to share when you least expect it.
Invitation. DonÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t panic! IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m not using the word Ã¢â‚¬Å“invitationÃ¢â‚¬Â in the technical sense, to describe what Billy Graham does after delivering an evangelistic message. Rather, IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m encouraging you to invite people to gatherings where they will hear the good news. You may feel insecure about your ability to summarize the gospel message, but you can certainly invite a friend to church, or to a Promise Keepers gathering, or to a womenÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s Bible study, or to a retreat, and so forth. I have seen many tongue-tied Christians help lead a friend to Christ simply by inviting that friend to a place where someone else does most of the talking about Jesus.
Neighborliness. Scripture teaches you to love your neighbor as yourself. If you keep this in mind, God will open up opportunities for you to speak easily about Jesus. Moreover, your love will pave the way for a open-minded hearing of what you have to say.
Sharing. When God opens a door, walk through it. In an honest and humble way, simply share with people your faith in Christ. You donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t have to preach. You donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t have to pretend to be the Bible Answer Man. Simply explain what Jesus means to you and how he has enabled you to be reconciled to God. As you share, the Spirit will help you.
Thanks Mark – I think this might help lots of people who struggle with sharing their faith in today’s culture.